How I Work
“Do you have any tools to help us?” “We just need to work on our communication skills.” “We're desperate, can you teach us some techniques to break this pattern?”
I hear this kind of thing time and again. I can give you what you ask for. It very likely won’t work – whether it comes from me or from any other therapist. It's like a bandaid on a cut that needs stitches. Instead, we need a comprehensive roadmap and more importantly, we have to get to the heart of the matter.
With that in mind, let's start with "Where You Are"